Don’t Tell Mama

75 St George's Road, Kemptown, Brighton, United Kingdom, BN2 1EF

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audience rating Don't Tell Mama, 3.3 out of 5 based on 18 ratings
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TODAY Private Men Only Event - invitation only (contact the club)

TOMORROW 70's Night - men only

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Don’t Tell Mama (D.T.M.), launched in March 2016, now counts over 600 members. This men-only (over 25’s) gay cruise club offers a friendly den to meet your mates and make new ones without the need of a mobile phone.

D.T.M. is a ‘bi/gay only’ bar but hosts C.A.Y.A. (Come As You Are) every Sunday which is open to all genders. Sports Night on Wednesdays where strict dress codes apply.

Free entry. Check the website for upcoming parties. Closed Mondays and Tuesdays.











based on 3 reviews
  1. Sportswear

    “I decided to check out this bijou and charming bar and feel compelled to state what a wonderful night the sportswear event turned out to be. The dress code is part of the fun and Serge alongside his patronage were convivial and the ambience enchanting.”


     on 11-10-2016 | Reply Problem with this review?

  2. The Original GAY bar!

    “Not sure what the previous guy is on about obviously yet another internet troll so many in Brighton these days!
    Serge & Jason launched this bar just about 6 months ago now and I have been a regular since. Looking for new mates? Looking for a friendly, no attitude, no loud music, cosy and stylish den , look no further! D.T.M. is the Gay Bar of the late 70’s, the original gay bar, friendly welcome, social, very social, if you don’ t like making new mates and talking to friendly guys then I agree with the internet troll, don’t bother! But if you do then D.T.M. is the ONLY place in Brighton where you will be able to.
    Great little bar, cosy lounge, unpretentious dance floor, cruising area and small dark room.
    Thanks Guys for this great addition to Brighton dying and bitter Gay scene!”


     on 10-28-2016 | Reply Problem with this review?

    • Thank you!

      “My name is Serge , I own and run D.T.M.
      I am extremely grateful for your review. It is hard in 2016 to run a Gay Bar or Club certainly in this world of mobile phone which has made the scene SO anti social. I believe that there is still room for a Men Only bar/club without being a sex club which seems to be what people expected in Brighton.
      First and foremost Don’t Tell Mama is a social club.
      A friendly den to meet your mates and make new ones without the need of a mobile phone.
      D.T.M. was launched in March 2016 and now counts over 600 Members. Its a friendly, stylish and cosy and intimate place where you will be made welcome! A bienôt and thank you for your support. Serge”

       on 11-05-2016 | Reply Problem with this review?

  3. Don't do the walk

    “Way out of the gay village. Very small bar with a new found clique that sit around the bar listening to the bar man tell his woes of hard life. Down stairs a lot of empty space a 2m x 2m square room with a curtain?? Not sure lol. No one in apart from his clique. Vey clean to the clinical state. I wouldn’t bother again.”


     on 06-25-2016 | Reply Problem with this review?

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venue cruise / fetish

features bar, music, dancing, dark room, cruise / fetish

exclusively gay

weekday Wed 21:00 - 01:00

weekend Fri 21:00 - 02:00; Sun from 18:00 - 00:00

last updated: 11-10-2016

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